There’s an elephant in the room when it comes to online dating that no guys really want to talk about, and that has to do with the ratio of girls to guys on most dating sites.
There are way more guys than girls.
You’re just going to have to accept that. You’re also going to have to accept the fact that because there are way more guys than girls, they pretty much have the pick of the litter when it comes to online dating.
However, that doesn’t mean that there’s nothing you can do, or that you have to just take whatever girl comes along!
Girls have the pick of the litter, and that’s fine. Don’t forget there are lots of girls doing the picking, and that it’s really NOT that hard to be the pick of the litter if you follow our strategies.
Another thing to remember is that not all girls have the same taste.
While some girls might like young men, others will have a preference for older ones. You’re going to be to the tastes of a lot of girls, no matter what your physical attributes are.
You don’t need to bow to the girls on these sites.
The best way to make sure that women are paying you as much attention as you want is to act like they’re GOING to. You just have to make it clear that there are other things you could be doing with your time-and that you like doing those things just as much as you like hanging out with her.
You’re in control.
If you start acting like she’s not necessarily number one on her list, she’ll probably get the message-and stop treating you like some toy she can dangle around on a string.
In fact, this is something that a lot of girls really like in their hookup dates! They like it when they’re not the only thing a guy is focused on, because having a bunch of guys constantly drooling all over them can get pretty creepy after a while.
Just send a message, don’t act like she’s the most important thing in your life, and be prepared to move on with another girl if necessary. You don’t have to let her call all of the shots.
But what if she starts losing interest?
Believe it or not, it’s just about as common for guys to lose interest in girls as it is the other way around. Guys tend to be focused on just one thing (or woman) at a time, and women tend to be pretty aware of just how many guys they have going at the same time.
One thing that’s very similar, though, is that we both HATE it when someone starts losing interest in us. So, there are a few different ways to make sure she retains interest, even if you’re actually not all that interested in her when it comes down to it.
When in doubt, play on her competitiveness.
A lot of guys think that we’re the more competitive ones.
They should meet some of the women we know.
Seriously, women are at LEAST as competitive as men. When they’re competing against other chicks, they’re about a hundred times more competitive, so use this as a last ditch attempt.
Competition to women is like blood in the water to sharks.
Unless you’re ready to see some claws potentially come out, shy away from this technique. But if you really want to take charge and find out which women are actually into, use this technique.
Make sure she knows you have other options.
If she does that, she might get pretty aggressive about getting your attention, which is a lot better than being dangled on a string like some toy! Get ready, because this is one of our usual last chance attempts to get a girl interested in us, if we think she’s being coy on purpose.
Now, this only works if the girl is genuinely interested but is playing a game with you. If she was just on the fence about getting into you, this probably won’t work-however, if that’s the case, she probably wasn’t going to get with you anyway. Sorry, but it’s just the facts.
If you’re ready to throw down, let her see the competition and let her nature take over.